Been with my partner 9 years, have previously been in a dv relationship. When I first met my current partner he was so kind, soft and gentle. Treated me well. I am diagnosed with depression, anxiety, ptsd and more recently Bpd. We are both nearly 50. My partner rings me all day everyday. I thought it was nice but a little annoying at times.. Everything's changed as of yesterday tea time. He was a bit ratty, idiot on the road, big que at the shop and obviously a bit hot and bothered. He came in went straight in the garden as I'd told him I'd seen a rat. Anyway he moved my planter and rat jumped out. I screamed and with that he forcefully shoved me to go indoors. I shouted don't push me and went indoors. He continued out in the garden. I came in sat down in shock. He then comes in and says to me I didn't push you OK? I could barely look at him all evening and hardly said two words. Anyway he's gone to work this morning and no phonecall, I'm obviously in the dog house. I don't know what to do.