Teenagers dad told her she won’t she him again

[Stephanie2018]

I posted recently that my ex called me a prostitute in front of my 13 year old.
she was living with him for the past 7 years and there’s a lot to it but long story short she said she wants to live with me now. (I do have full custody aswell)

he is telling her if she chooses to stay here, she will never see him again. She has been in tears all morning and I’m so angry. He said have a nice life , you’ve destroyed and broke my heart and I hope it was worth it. He said he would be stopping texting her too.

am I right in thinking he is a narcissist? This IS emotional blackmail/manipulation /bullying, is it not?

yes it is. As you know, although you are doubting yourself.

I'd get your teen some counselling asap. The poor girl needs to know what bullying and gaslighting is and to know it's not her fault. It's his. All his.

I am so so sorry.

Thank you so much. I’m so done with his narcissistic abuse I’m not letting him anywhere near her at the moment. I am so so angry.

Beggars belief. Poor, poor girl. This is emotional abuse.
Have a word with the school so they're aware. Possibly change your custody agreement?