looking for advice on how to get over a recent issue with husband , he has approached someone via messages , none are actually inappropriate but he broke down and told me everything , he said he fancied this other lady . Nothing happened , she ignored the messages .
to be clear - he broke down and told me - I was so shocked , I didn’t even have a clue that he had done this.
im aware it sounds trivial in comparison to what many relationships go through and I did appreciate his honesty in the end , we have been together 18 years he swears he’s never looked to pursue anyone before and he claims he didn’t actually want anything to happen , more that he was convinced she fancied him.
we have talked and talked and he says he’s committed to us and I’m keen to move on and keep our relationship going . It shook me to the core as I didn’t see this coming at all , everything between us seemed great to me . My question is - have any of you been through similar ? I feel my self questioning his every move at the moment, questioning what he’s thinking ,
I’m anxious and I feel like I think about what COULD have happened all the time ? It’s driving me insane - how do I help myself to move on ?