This is really weird- I’ve been with DP for 6 years, and now what feels like out the blue his jealousy is destroying our relationship.
He suddenly has a crazy hatred for my ex husband who I split from 12 years ago.
he absolutely hates my job and everything to do with it. But was equally hating when I reduced my hours to part time as it is me doing something I want to be doing (my take on it)
he hates the fact I’m on a club social committee- yet he too is on a social committee for another club
goes without saying loads of issues around my relationship with my children.
hates the fact I go to counselling- yet always watches programmes championing mental health etc. so it’s not that he’s against counselling- just against me doing it.
I feel really flummoxed- this has all come out of the blue really, and I feel really undermined on all of those issues above.
everyone is going to say ltb. I just feel really sad for what had been a really good relationship.
money is the only root cause I can think of. I have a house and he doesn’t and is in debt with no chance of owning one.