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Feeling hurt!

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letsstaypositive · 23/04/2025 22:07

So! Tonight myself my husband and his daughter from 1st marriage and her partner (in 20s) out for food and a couple of drinks tonight When I’m talking about things we’ve done he’s looking at his daughter and rolling his eyes and looking sideways. I’ve called him out on it since we’ve got home and as usual according to him I’ve imagined it. . Feeling upset as he has refused to discuss and shut down on me.

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PullTheBricksDown · 23/04/2025 22:21

'As usual' doesn't sound good. How long have you been together? What makes you want to stick with him?

Maplesy10 · 23/04/2025 23:15

Unkind, disrespectful, dismissive, and shuts you down.
Why exactly are you with him?

Girlmom35 · 24/04/2025 13:47

This is a very he-said, she-said situation.
Did he really roll his eyes? Are you maybe overly sensitive to these things? You say as usual, how often does this happen? Is he the first person you've had this issue with?

Deathraystare · 24/04/2025 14:28

If I had seen him rolling his eyes I would have stopped the conversation right then and there and ask why the childish behaviour but you left it too late so he had time to pretend nothing happened.

letsstaypositive · 24/04/2025 15:48

Thanks for your responses. Yes i should have called him out on it straight away but I’m all for keeping the peace.

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