I know a guy who lives next door to a social club. He only contacts me to rant about the club. I rarely talk about myself and when I do the majority of the time he dismisses it. He said he feels suicidal now. The police and the council don’t do anything and twist it round and blame his Asperger’s and I have seen the emails.
He has support from ASB agencies, his doctor and social services so I know they will monitor him if he is suicidal. I don’t feel equipped to be dealing with a suicidal person, I have no powers to sort the ASB and have to be careful what I say to him.
I admit some concerns are the way he thinks due to his Asperger’s but there is drug dealing and drug use going on and I have seen they evidenced and the police and council refuse to sort the problem. It’s even been in the local papers about the drug problem. I don’t understand why the police won’t help. All these agencies and no one wants to sort it.
I asked why did he buy next to a social club as he bought it just before lockdown and he said it was quiet in lockdown. He gets defensive saying he should be allowed to buy where he wants. I have said sell up and move to the next village but then he plays the victim again saying he want to stay in the same village where all the perpetrators are. He is close to his parents and I think it was very irresponsible of them and his friends to allow him to buy next to a social club if he has issues with noise and lights.
I have told him many times to sell up and move because the authorities won’t do anything but he just delays things saying nonsense like he can’t sell up as he has to wait for his parents money to mature so they must own some of the property. Some of the people who have been causing the ASB are land developers trying to buy his property cheap in the desperation he wants to sell up quick.
I am fed up of hearing it now. I have now own problems and family and partner have health issues and even they don’t moan about their issues.
He was moaning the other day saying a mutual friend only talks about herself and I thought that’s exactly what he does and doesn’t like it. He slagged off one of his friends as she says her depression is bad at the moment so can’t help him and needs time out yet he calls her selfish.
I told him before and he did stop talking about the issues for a while but he is back to his old ways again.