Hi, I’ve been seeing my partner since January. He told me before we were intimate that he sometimes uses viagra. I haven’t experienced this before, but asked lots of questions and it didn’t worry or concern me. Moving forward a few weeks. We’ve stayed together and tried intimacy on a couple of occasions. With the help of Viagra he can eventually get hard, but isn’t able to maintain it for more than a couple of minutes. It’s quite frustrating for both of us. But I’m not sure he’s completely honest because the last time he said he just lost stamina, rather than the erection. I’m fairly sure it was the erection. Of course I’ve been reassuring and supportive as much as possible. But he also only likes one position and is very reluctant to try others, even though he’s told me a lot he wants me to orgasm and I’ve gently told him what I like. He doesn’t seem to want to try it. It seems to be my partner waking me in the night to have sex, just for a minute or two, and then him losing it and then trying again an hour later.
its great he’s not tried to hide the Viagra, and the problem he has, but I’m not sure if it’s all just that. Part of me is thinking maybe he just doesn’t think he can satisfy me, so this is as good as it will get.
Any advice would be appreciated!