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Hes bloody walked out again...drunk drove

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Wineee · 22/04/2025 12:55

Well he's gone. Again. Small argument between us nothing major just a difference of opinions which then turned into him saying I've been moaning all week at him because we haven't been talking much (we don't live together and we have barley spoke this week) I wasn't moaning I was just saying we haven't spoke much and feel like we are drifting apart basically expressing my feelings and worries..anyway he left.. I told him not to drive and stay on the sofa until the morning then leave as he had 2 large bottles of beer (the big big bottles) and I'm sure he was over the limit but i think that would be? I don't drink much. He left anyway drove 45 minutes home.

The next day I messaged and said we need to talk he said he would call me about 8pm once I got my dcs to bed - no phone call - I messaged him and he did start typing back to me but then stopped and nothing....

I'm done now with him, drink driving is an ick a massive ick and walking out and blanking me like he has done is evil feel like I've been disgraded.

OP posts:
Topseyt123 · 22/04/2025 12:58

Don't have him back. He sounds like an arse anyway.

mummymeister · 22/04/2025 13:01

TBH you dont sound done with him. I dont know any of the back story but even if you are then just talking to him when he is completely sober and in the cold light of day is a good thing to do. relationships have a solid beginning they need a solid end in my experience so that both parties can physically and mentally move on with their lives.

Maitri108 · 22/04/2025 13:11

When someone says you're moaning when you bring up your relationship, then it's pretty much over. You can't have a relationship by yourself and if he doesn't want to put any effort in then you're scuppered.

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 22/04/2025 13:18

He’s a drunk. The end.

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