Hi ladies
I’ve been speaking to someone from OLD for around 2 months now. He’s currently living at the bottom of the UK whilst I’m in the middle, he said he’s moving back this way (we matched when he was this way visiting family).
initially he said he was moving back this way soon, so talking for a couple of weeks didn’t seem like a problem. This it got to around a month and I thought hmm, then by the end of the second month I decided to call it a day and say that enough is enough. I asked if he was coming this way anytime soon to arrange a date and gave him dates that I was free, he said he’d let me know and then found excuses for every single one of the dates.
we’ve spoken on the phone lots for a couple of hours at a time, and from what I’d got to know of him and including looks, he seems like my perfect man.
however, in my opinion if someone was that bothered then they’d make the effort to go out to at least see if we like each other initially in person and whether it’s even worth continuing all the texts. I’ve suggested meeting half way but he says no. He says he really likes me and don’t want to lose me but then does absolutely nothing about it.
im a ‘actions speak louder than words’ person. I’ve explained to him that I want someone who is going to be present and make themselves available at least once in a 2 month period to meet up and I’ve explained that I’m calling it a day and if he wants to take make out in the future he can let me know.
my friends think I’ve made the wrong decision and should have just carried on texting until he took me out but I could be waiting months at this point.
have I made the wrong decision by ending it?