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Confused about mixed messages

28 replies

ThatCoralBiscuit · 15/04/2025 12:53

Im seeing a guy and have been for the past six weeks.
most of the time its lovely, we get on really well. However, when he has a busy or stressful working week, he lashes out.
we spoke for an hour by video call on Sunday. It was great. Yesterday when i told him i was going away this week, he suddenly turned saying he didnt care anymore, that he just wanted to be left alone. Then accused me of having a hookup with someone else.
he normally says goodnight and good morning. He has done neither and all my messages are being ignored. How can he suddenly be nice one day to completely turning against me.
i really care about him but he is now ignoring me .

OP posts:
Pamspeople · 15/04/2025 18:55

Have you done the Freedom Programme, OP? I'd really recommend that you do because this is such obviously red flag/run for the hills behaviour that you need to be able to recognise it. Anyone "lashing out" in any way is not worth a moment more of your time or energy.

Couldyounot · 15/04/2025 19:01

Why are you wasting time on this pathetic individual?

JHound · 15/04/2025 19:25

After six weeks he is basically a stranger and rapidly showing you his true self.

Get out now.

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