My husband and I have been together 8 years with 2 children. During my second pregnancy he cheated and I found out about it at 7 months. He cheated with a co worker that he constantly came home talking about. I was suspicious because of how much he talked about her and when I said something he looked me in my face a lied saying she’s just a coworker.
A couple months after finding out about him cheating I foolishly took him back. His behavior has changed,but a part of me still did not trust him 100%. Last week I told him I just could not let go of what he did and it still hurts.Because of this I have to walk away. He ended up leaving and when he returned home I started finding school notes that our oldest makes at school about how much he loves dad and he has the best family.
These are notes he will bring home for us that he kept in a box. He is still planning family outings and acting like things are ok. I have been taking space from him and he’ll follow me telling me “not to make this miserable for us both and come spend time with your children who are my children also”. I just want away from him right now. He can see his children but it is hard for me being around him especially with him acting like everything is normal.
He told me he could stay with family which is fine with me I’ve asked him to get his things. It’s been a week and he has not packed a thing. The other day he told me he slept in his car. I honestly feel like he’s trying to guilt trip me and it’s so annoying.