Ratings new guy who is so shy

[Confusingclouds]

I’m dating a new guy who’s is really shy and it has been so lovely and different to what I’m am used to.

I am used to dating confident guys who go for what they want and the chemistry is electric etc. but I have chosen not to date guys like that anymore as they tend to not work out.

Now I am dating this shy guy and it is really confusing me. He hasn’t initiated a kiss, isn’t touchy feely, thanks me for holding his hand. It feels odd.

Am I right to feel weird about this? He is so sweet, but I am also wondering whether we are compatible because I’m wanting more physical touch and kissing.

Or is this normal and I’m just feeling strange about it because I’m used to guys that are more confident and forward?

Sorry the title should say Dating new guy who is so shy.

Maybe you will just have to take the lead for a little while?

You could try talking to him and telling him what you want?
He might think he’s being respectful by taking it slowly. If you want it to move faster, or want more cuddles, say so?

He may just have taken the message about bringing sure of the woman’s consent very much to heart. What happens if you try to kiss him?

Yes I think so, which makes me more nervous.

Yes that’s a good suggestion. I am enjoying the slowness of it all, but it’s just strange as I’m not used to it. I need to stop overthinking it.

Yes it might be that, which is a great trait to gave. I’m not sure so I will have to give that a try.

Aww he sounds like a genuine person, wanting to get to know you as a person before charging in - how refreshing! Take it slowly. Some of the best relationships are often slow burners. Friendship first is the best way I feel.