This is probs a tale as old as time but I’m keen to hear others experiences. Basically I have a nearly 3 yo and an 8 month old, and my sex drive has all but disappeared.
I went on the implant, ironically so we could have more sex without worrying about contraception, but I just am so exhausted and never feel like it.
When we do eventually have sex I do enjoy it, it’s just the leading up to it I can never bring myself to initiative it because I’m just so tired. Partner is great, gets up in the night with the baby etc, and I’m frustrated because I really want to improve our sex life.
Could this be hormonal? Any stories of anyone who turned it around? Part of me thinks, well if you want to have sex more, you’re just going to have to do that… but in reality it’s not as simple as that.