Something is bothering me quite a lot. It's to do with my husband's 2 friends.
What I have found is this. When they see me alone they are really interactive and communicate a lot. Have long conversations etc. I see them both as brotherly by the way. They share quite a lot.
In the presence of my husband from my side im just the same but thier whole demenour changes towards me. And they avoid eye contact etc. Its made me feel really confused and also i visited one of them with my husband last night and he was so off with me but just the day before he was in full conversation with me over the garden fence! I felt so uncomfortable in his home and his wife and kids were there. Anytime i asked him something he just looked off and looked at me for a quarter of the response and then would give his eye contact to someoneelse in the room even though i asked the question? If that makes sense. It was just very odd as normally he is fully engaged away from this environment. I feel annoyed and just left their home making an excuse leaving m husband there.
I now feel like I don't even want to talk to these people as they don't seem authentic at all. And it just feels like I can't trust people at all.
They are 2 separate friends by the way. And this is why I feel paranoid. Like is it me ? Am I the problem? What is going on here?