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How can i forgive & forget this?

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colourblockss · 04/04/2025 06:36

i did a thread recently regarding my partner subbing to only fans women behind my back and me finding the emails ..more recently i found he had been liking naked photos of other women on social women and w*nking off into tissues upstairs whilst me and our child are downstairs. When i confront him about it and tell him how disappointed i am and how upset i am he starts to shout at me and then when i text on my phone he says wtf are you texting your mum for why are you telling her our problems (which i wasn’t it was a mate) he cares more about what others think of him than his wife.
We didn’t have sex for 6 weeks and it all
makes sense why because he was too busy using up the tissues by himself. Can i get through this and move past it? i feel differently about him now and he’s not the person i married i feel massively let down and like i don’t know who my husband is anymore.
i cried myself to sleep last night over it all and just feel not good enough again.

OP posts:
Ncforthisonafriday · 04/04/2025 10:50

When I brought our new dc home dh was regularly disappearing off to the bathroom.. Had cause to use his phone (swapping baby pics) and saw an alert (he had been using a website with celebrity nudes on.) .. A decade on I wish I had thrown him out then.. Our relationship has never recovered.. Not for me anyway.. No respect for him as a dh. Great df though...

yeesh · 04/04/2025 10:55

Why do you want to forgive and forget? You deserve better

MoreChocPls · 04/04/2025 10:59

Don’t forgive and forget. Kick out and move on.

TryForSpring · 04/04/2025 11:01

Can i get through this and move past it?

Why would you want to? You really want to settle for this as your future? And worse.

imnotsickbutimnotwell · 04/04/2025 11:35

Life is too short for this, it won’t get better and he doesn’t seem to care about you at all. Best to move on without him.

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