I’m hoping for some support finding my mojo after breakup?! I can’t get out of this slump!

[Daisydaisydaisy1]

I don’t even miss him! I miss me!
I feel completely desensitised to everything?
It ended in October so I gave myself time to grieve the loss. Loss of future I thought it might be, not him! He was immature and financially irresponsible!
I just feel like every day is the same. I feel quite gross!
I’m drinking and eating far too much (for comfort). I’m tired and no desire to do anything. I want to but can’t shift this awful feeling of ‘feeling yuk’!
I don’t think I’m depressed. I’m still functioning at work and managing to the household chores!
I just feel nothing and want to cry when I see my reflection!
I can’t remember feeling this way when I was in a relationship!
Has anyone felt this way, if so how did you snap out of it?

By focussing on things I wanted to do, from new bed linen to repainting the bedroom. Having a big clearcut and putting up new pics. Going on lots of dates!

Made me realise who I was and what I liked. Travel too.

I feel puffy and yuk! I feel like I’m just functioning!
it’s strange as it’s the the relationship I miss.

Thankyou beerandmusic I’m going to have a little sort out this weekend. Maybe I need a holiday. I keep thinking I will join the gym, cut out alcohol but it a viscous cycle. I know it’s only me that can change it. Just don’t know why I’m like it. It’s only since the break up!

Take a holiday. Even if you are lonely there it will get you out of your rut/ comfort zone