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Finds it ridiculous

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mumoftwoboys321 · 03/04/2025 13:09

So as previous posts have said found out my partner had been cheating a week ago absolutely devastated by it and for the first few days I couldn’t help but look for the man I fell in love with instead all I saw was a cold hearted distant human.
so I’ve started the plan for my next steps finally realised it wasn’t my fault (I know I’m not perfect) but I never caused any of this or done anything really bad in all our years so since then everything is changing and all of a sudden he’s so sorry and he loves me and blah blah funny how none of that was there until caught even when I started to suspect still nothing was stopping his affair! Do these people really think they are that special or are they just that broken.
one day at a time is my outlook at the moment but my god I’m so tired of his games just a few more days to go and if he doesn’t go I will be

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Maitri108 · 03/04/2025 13:36

You're not responsible for other people's behaviour, he chose to cheat.

They all come out with the same crap. You made me do it. You forced me into marriage. I didn't want children. You never treated me well...Yadda, Yadda, Yadda.

They rewrite history and place responsibility on everyone else. They're the saint in the scenario.

You might find the forum Surviving Infidelity helpful. My advice is not to rush into anything as you'll be on a emotional rollercoaster. Take your time to work out what you want to do.

mumoftwoboys321 · 03/04/2025 13:59

Maitri108 · 03/04/2025 13:36

You're not responsible for other people's behaviour, he chose to cheat.

They all come out with the same crap. You made me do it. You forced me into marriage. I didn't want children. You never treated me well...Yadda, Yadda, Yadda.

They rewrite history and place responsibility on everyone else. They're the saint in the scenario.

You might find the forum Surviving Infidelity helpful. My advice is not to rush into anything as you'll be on a emotional rollercoaster. Take your time to work out what you want to do.

Thank you no definitely no rushing as I say one day at a time is all I can do at the moment just makes me laugh that now he wants to give a dam, thank you I will have a look at that

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