Hi everyone
I been with my partner for 15 years and two kids .I am full time employeer Working my ass out .she worked the first few years .after she knew what sort work I done for living a ask her she could learn to be my secretary she said she would love to .but sense i told her that she doesn't need to work only help me with work papers and we can make a living from my wages .but sense then no work and no help with work papers and it been for so long that now I am very busy and I cant look after of everything myself. And when I asker the only thing she needs to do is start learning .she just goes ballistic. I pay 90% the bills ,and 11 years ago she got problems with her knee ,I got her a automatic car, built her a toilet downstairs , put a handrail on the stairs one outside at front door anything that needs to be done and resolved. Mr Tom after full days work and paper work needs to remember her needs ,I am exhausted .if I tell that I need more help from her she starts to raise her voice and making me feel that I am the wrong one and she keeps telling I know wer the door is if I am not happy .
it is a rent house and most of the 80% stuff in house I bought myself .her car broke down ,needed to hire a car so I did because she still have knee pain after knee surgery and she needs it to take kids to school .but when I confronted her if she hire the car for one more day she told I never told her .I have my own van I don't need a car .and I hate after building everything her weapon is : you know where the door is