I’ve been with my partner 7 years, we have a 4 year old and things have been hard since we had our son. I suffered PND bad & at the time my partner wasn’t very supportive he would tell me I was incapable & useless, 2 weeks after giving birth he told me to make myself useful & clean out the garage. Since our son has got to toddler age he is stamping his authority down even more, our son should be made to sit at the table for breakfast I should be getting hold of him & making him do it, he shouted at me cos I got our son ready upstairs instead of downstairs. He has to make his pack lunch everyday, (you know just incase I happen to put chocolate sandwiches & sugar in!)
I have the chance to go away with my sister and son and I asked him 3 times if this was ok which he said was & even said that he didn’t want to go away with our son yet as he’d be stuck all day round a splash pool and he wouldn’t be able to do what he wanted to do. I booked the holiday & now he’s kicking off saying we do everything separate & why would I go book a holiday when we are selling our house. He says I’m back on the depressive. He basically gave me an ultimatum that I move to a particular house that neither of us has seen or I can go live somewhere else.
we are going to be putting our house up for sale soon and I just don’t know whether I should make a break or go with him for our son.