Am I wrong

[datgyalb]

Hi so it’s Mother’s Day today told my bf we was meeting my kids at 3:15 (he didn’t have to come he wanted to) he wanted to get his hair cut we got there 2:30 obviously he’s been there before so must of known the guy was slow anyway 3:15 still getting his hair cut my oldest son and younger kids are waiting for us.. it’s got to 3:30 I said I got up and said if you’re gonna be much longer I’m gonna go . The barber was like I’m done now and kinda gave this look apparently which I didn’t notice … admittedly I was pissed and it was probably clear but I wasn’t rude not disrespectful to him or the barber but now I’ve been made to feel wrong for being pissed off but I said he knew the guy was slow why didn’t he just say he’s of gone earlier and then met us at 3:15 instead rather than keep me waiting and my kids sitting in the food place waiting aswell .. he was like the barber gave me a funny look as if to say wtf it just really annoyed me as I didn’t need to be there nor be late for meetings my own kids on mother’s day .. am I wrong ?

Why did you need to be with him while he got his hair cut?

Of course you're not wrong. I don't understand why you just didn't leave him there though.

Why didn’t he get his haircut alone, while you went to meet your kids? Is there a reason you had to sit and watch, waiting for him? And no, you’re not wrong.

I didn’t this i said to him you go out before me then by the time i was in the town he’d of been done he was insistent we went together .. after today I actually said i wont go again either as there was no need

Exactly I said he didn’t need to come and I also said if he wanted to come he should go before me then he’d of been done so if he did want to come then nobody would of been waiting around

I know I should of really and I’ve learnt my lesson I did tell him though to just go without me and leave earlier then he’d of been done I’m sure he knew how long the guy would of been then to top it off after he said I forgot to say he’d take an hour 🙄 I was just made to feel like I’ was wrong for being pissed off although yes I should of gone sooner and left him to it

So many would of , should of , could of 😬

😬

Look it's done now..next time you've got a tight schedule and he wants you to accompany him somewhere, tell him you'll meet him there and refuse.

Never in a million years would it occur to me to go to the hairdresser with my husband. Even if I had nowhere else to be I'd look round the shops or something and tell him to let me know when done.
Anyway, you didn't do anything wrong and next time just tell him you'll meet him there. Don't make yourself late waiting for him.

Honestly lesson learnt and I should of outright said no he’s been so many times before without me

“Should have”?