My DH and I have been together for 32yrs(married for 2 yrs). We recently went to the funeral of my DH old friend. His X wife was there with her mother and sister. His X had ended their marriage 34yrs prior by suggesting they move their caravan(living in it in her mothers yard while saving for a house deposit) into a caravan park. She set the van and annexe up the same way it had been at her mothers place but made an excuse not to stay the night. The next day when my DH went to the wardrobe/cupboards he saw none of her clothes etc were there and realised she hadn't moved in. Soon after he found out, he thinks from her brother she had left him for someone who worked at the same factory as her and her mother. I ran into her at the toilets after the service. (I had never met her before). There was a short polite conversation between us while her mother and sister were in the toilet. There was no discomfort or awkwardness on my part and I felt it was a case of 2 strangers on neutral ground at the same occasion. Later at the wake she invited my DH to their table as her mother wanted to say hi to him.( I believe it was a set up) He asked me what I thought we should do to which I said, whatever he decided was fine by me. Neither of us had a problem with it. It was a funeral and the past was in the past and had always been that way. While her mother kept my DH talking and her sister was scrolling on her MBL the X said to me, "so, how is he. How's he been. I thought she was just making conversation and asking after his health and general well being. So I said, yes he's good. He's fine. She said, "cos I know what he can be like". I was like ok, that's not what your asking and looked at her. She said, "oh yeah I know what he can be like, you don't have to tell me. I know, I know. I was confused and shocked. What the hell was she doing. I'm his wife.(have you no respect). It's 34yrs since you've even layed eyes on him and we're at a funeral and have you forgotten what you did and how you had treated him. I was dumbfounded and very annoyed. Shortly after they said they had to go and left the table to say goodbye to the wife of the friend who'd passed away. We left the table to do the same soon after to find they were standing around the corner still waiting. So we waited in the same area. My DH went to the toilet and in the short time he was away the X's sister who was standing near by me said "so, does he treat you well". Shock horror. I was still trying to process what the X had said. All I could manage was yes, yes he does. We have been together 32yrs. To which she replied. "Oh that's good. That's really good". Then my DH returned and without saying goodbye to the wife of the friend who'd passed away they left. To be clear, my DH is a lovely man of good character who has always treated me with Love and kindness. My question is? Does anyone have any idea's as to why they would that. What were they hoping to get out of it. Apologies this is so long. I would appreciate any feedback.