Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice on how to detach and be happy, have peace from my partner/ex who's a lazy selfish negative narcissist. I'm ready to kick him out for good but I'm a few months pregnant - very high risk and my 2 year old toddler is having the typical toddler issues at the moment and my mental health isn't the best. So even though my son's father does very little, even that very little I need at the moment or I feel I will loose it altogether. I want to establish a way, if possible, to not allow him to impact my moods so much. He's lazy, can't hold down a job, sleeps all day, stays up alright, does very little in terms of parenting my son or household duties, he moans and is constantly asking for sex. He regularly disappears as well. I get frustrated when I'm running around in pain due to pregnancy, managibg my toddler, sleep deprived and he's in bed sleeping in my house doing nothing. I don't want to break up with him just yet because when I have before he won't see my son and I can't cope at the moment with 24/7 parenting with no break and being pregnant, and I'm going to be restricted on what I can do even more so down the line due to pregnancy complications. I don't want to live in a state of frustration and anger due to being treated so badly and living so unfairly - thanks.