I gave condolences to an ex boyfriend about a family member passing. I was with this person for 8 years prior to being with my fiance for 8. I finally told him I talked to him and every right to be upset. It was a innocent conversation how he was, how I was , blah blah. We have a kinky sex life with toys. And recently agreed to have a threesome with a man and we did it. He continues to message men on an app to find someone to do it with again and I'm down but he doesn't tell me until after. He's sent texts to a mutual acquaintance a couple years ago , sexual texts and I didn't find out until I was told by this guy he sent them to. Now, he constantly is going in my phone and checking everything. He has a password on his and idk know it! I am CONSANTLY getting accused of cheating and he wants a list of names, dates and how many times it occurred. He says if I don't give him that then I can move out! I can't provide that information because I've never had sex with anyone but him except for the threesome!!!!! He is treating me the same way he treated his ex and baby momma prior to me as well. I'm not going to confess to so.ething I did not do. He's the one who is cheating, I feel. I never ever have been unfaithful and I'm really tired of being accused! I have been trying so hard. I always give him affection and rub him and take care of him when sick. I am going through a miscarriage just found out today and we did he threesome a month and a half ago and I was only 4 weeks. He says we'll it's not his because he can't get me pregnant it's impossible because he apparently got tested after we did that but I think that's a lie. And I haven't screwed anyone and we've been having sex nearly every night! My hours got cut at work and my car is broken down. We live in a hill town. Nothing around unless you drove 12 min . Or a half an hour. And I've also had our 4 year old with me on the days I haven't gone to work! She doesn't nap so how the he'll would I possibly do anything! I can't take it anymore.