Ok so I just need some advise . My partner is great at most things he’s handy around the house and helps with chores and is a good dad . He also has a issue with his temper which has started to get to me he can switch quickly and though he has never been violent he talks to me like I’m the dirt on his shoes at times and it’s not just me it can be his mum, a random stranger and now on the odd occasion he has talked to our son badly who is not even 2 yet. He gets easily overwhelmed and he can be rude also to my mum and other family members of in a bad mood the frustrating thing is if he’s in a good mood he handles things really well but it’s rare . I have asked him before to stop but it’s not happened so I wanted to talk to him again and ask that he works on his triggers maybe through therapy or something. Is this a good idea and if so does anyone have any suggestions as I feel I’m at the end of my rope with it all .