I have been with my partner for 2 and a half years. A couple months in he started to get ailments and injuries so he has been on and off sick at his employer. A lot of these injuries were caused by his employer but they continue to gaslight him and others who are injured and refuse to give him an office job. He did the office before but he and others were pushed out due to company corruption.
Through this time we last went on holiday 18 months ago. I met him for a drink earlier and he was moaning saying we need to book a health spa the weekend as we don’t do anything. I said to him I have suggested it many times and he always said no because he didn’t feel well. He then said yeah I was right and that we need to just do things now. It annoyed me he tried to blame me.
I feel depressed as I have put on over 2 stone since being together. We eat out a lot and buy snacks. Before I met him I was very healthy and went hiking and to the gym. I know I can’t blame him but I feel as though he has taken me off track and wish I had someone who was healthy.
He said last night he wants to eat healthy and then tonight he was eating a burger at the pub. I didn’t as I wanted to eat healthier at home and save money. Just the same old promises.
It is not much of a varied life and I want to be happy again.