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7 months in. Should I walk away?

13 replies

DeadOptimus · 12/03/2025 06:24

After 7 months she told me she doesn’t believe that she’s the best thing for me. How can she not be? I’m as happy as I’ve ever been with her. She calms me and brings me peace. She brought a spark to my life that I hadn’t felt in years. But it hurt to hear her say that she doesn’t think she’s good for me. I’m honestly at a total loss as to what I should do.

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 12/03/2025 06:25

Listen.

For whatever she wants out, maybe she's trying to let you down gently. If she's decided it's over there's nothing to be done

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MightAsWellBeGretel · 12/03/2025 06:28

Way too intense. You shouldn't look to another person to bring you peace.

LivingLaVidaBabyShower · 12/03/2025 06:31

I’d take her at her word and end it.

Lurkingandlearning · 12/03/2025 08:09

She just paraphrased “it’s not you, it’s me.” Don’t take it literally, she’s just trying to end the relationship.

WhatIsCorndogs · 12/03/2025 09:05

Way too much drama. No thanks!

HomeBodyClub · 12/03/2025 09:15

She calms you? What are you like otherwise?
Maybe you’re too much hard work.

She wants out so end it.

BellissimoGecko · 12/03/2025 09:22

I think she's trying to end things gently.

It's odd that you say she calms you and brings you peace. I'd expect a partner to be able to make himself calm and peaceful. Are you relying on her too much?

glitterturd · 12/03/2025 10:11

What she is actually saying is that you are not the best person for her.

Dweetfidilove · 12/03/2025 10:43

Believe her!

Or hold her and yourself hostage in the relationship, and spend every day regretting that you hadn't listened.

K8ate · 12/03/2025 20:00

Get rid of her. End of.

She will only break your heart further down the line.

Justmuddlingalong · 12/03/2025 20:03

What do you bring to the relationship?
It's sounds as though she feels like you rely on her for support.
Regardless, you'll have to accept her decision.

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