Hello all, I'm new here. Just a little story to try and get some advice for my situation.
Me and my partner broke up last October 2024. We've decided to carry on living together for financial reasons more than anything. Our son is 17 months old.
A week day consists of me getting home around 4:30pm. And around 5pm she goes to wash. Whilst she is washing, I do housework, and make dinner. She spends an hour in the shower. We eat around 6pm and at 7pm, she puts our son to bed. If he wakes up, we rotate ,me, her ect until we go to bed at 10pm. She looks after him all night as I'm in the spare room. If he wakes up and requires a bottle, she gives me a call and I make the bottle, and bring it up to her and go back to bed as I'm up at 6am. Occasionally she will cook when I haven't started making it when she gets out the shower
She doesn't do any housework whilst I'm at work, and it gets me down as I'm a clean person. I've confronted here about this, and it's always the same story. He was klingy today and wouldn't leave me alone. she'll go out for the day, 3 times a week and isn't home until after I'm home.
Come the weekend, she leaves the house from 11am to 10:30pm. I manage to clean the house, dishwasher, cook, wash clothes ect with our son. But she can't seem to do anything. Once she is home, she then takes care of him for the night with our weekday routine.
Am I selfish for thinking I do a lot? I'm not one to play the emotional code, but it mentally kills me, and gets me down to the point my family say all the fun has been sucked out of me