DH has got worse with being snappy over the years when he’s in pain or unwell. He takes it out on me and now the young kids. This week he’s had a trapped nerve in his neck which I understand is unbearably painful but everything I say or do, or the kids do make him winge, moan and be awful to be around. For example, I am very heavily pregnant and struggle to take kids out now alone, one is 3 and a runner. He’s off work today and I’m home with the kids and they’re acting up a bit. He’s taken them on a big walk earlier which I didn’t agree with because he’s in pain and I knew he’d pay later but let him get on with it. Since getting home from the walk, He’s being an absolute grump and snapping left right and centre. I don’t like how he’s speaking to us and I told him to just get out and go to his mums where she will put up with it. AIBU ?