My husband is planning to miss Father’s Day and his 40th birthday party this year for a bachelor party. It’s for a friend he’s known for 1 year. We have 3 children, and when he leaves we will be 6 weeks from our due date. We have gone 4-6 weeks early with all 3 of our children. The party is 10 hours away for 4 days. He says he’s compromising and going for 3.
Im feeling like he is neglecting us to go party. I’m normally fine with bachelor parties. Hes attendant two others during this pregnancy, just not when he’s missing important things and when we are so close to the due date.
I told him I don’t think it’s a good plan, he keeps saying we will decide closer to the time. I’d never miss Mother’s Day or a big birthday for an acquaintance bachelorette party. In fact, I’m missing my best friends bachelorette party in May because I don’t think I’ll be up for attending.
its so frustrating feeling neglected. This is definitely our last baby because this man has changed and im not ok with him.