Hi everyone, this is my first post.
My BF and I are both 19. We've been "officially" dating for three months. We are in the same university and I was the one who approached him (originally for friendship but quickly evolved into a relationship) because he has a very unique style which I was drawn to.
I am asexual, and he knows this. (I don't feel sexual attraction: I have no interest in sexual activity and could happily live my whole life never engaging in it.) I told him this as soon as I felt the relationship becoming romantic; I didn't think it was fair to withhold that information from him. As far as I know he is fine with it, though I know he is sexually attracted to me.
He sleeps over at my flat a lot, we hang out a lot, I like him and think his personality and manner are attractive, but his physical appearance and body don't really get a reaction out of me, and I let him touch me because it's comfortable, not because it sends my heart racing or whatever.
Would it be better if we were just friends? Should I tell him how I feel? I don't want to needlessly hurt him or anything because he's very sweet- I'm just not that physically attracted to him.
I don't really know what I'm supposed to feel; this is my first relationship, plus I am bisexual so all other romantic experience I have has been with girls. I have a suspicion I may be more attracted to women than men, which makes this whole situation even more difficult.
Any advice?