I went on a date with a brother of a colleague I once worked with. It was via Facebook. Chatted a little bit, then arranged to meet him for a drink.
Date 1 - chatted about general stuff but it was mainly about his past relationships (both had mh difficulties). He spoke about dating history (just one who he said was lovely but they never found the time). He spoke about his band and his 7 year old son. I did ask him questions, so I suppose that’s why he spoke so much about himself.
He continued to message but just basic how was your day etc, what’s for tea kind messages. I asked more about him.
Date 2 - met again for another drink, chatted again about the (one) date he had been on and how it didn’t come to anything etc etc. I mentioned my DC’s, and said I’m sure you can see by my Facebook, I’m also a nan. He said he wasn’t aware and hadn’t looked through my Facebook. I said it’s nice to get to know each other in person anyway. He didn’t ask further after that comment. We spoke more about his plans for the year.
Messaged in between but more with some innuendo thrown in. He wanted to know what I thought of him and if I’m chatting to others!
I have tried to initiate some more in depth conversations but he has not asked me anything about my life. I’m bored and I’m not feeling any interest as in interest in me.
He has mentioned date 3. He has messaged to say how much he would like to kiss me. I’d like him to ask more about me. I have no desire to kiss him at this stage. Am I expecting too much after 2 dates and back and forth messages for 3 weeks.