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Confused relationship

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Spiritinmist · 03/03/2025 17:52

I have been married for the past 20 years and have 2 beautiful daughters,i am a working mom and am doing 9 to 6 job.
I have a lot of pressures of both households and of jobs.
My husband is not doing anything or any job for the last ten years.
He is stayed home father and spends his life as he wishes.
He was a software developer before and was doing his best in this field but one day he just quit everything .
I cant say anything to him cause whenever i want to talk or ask him what his plans are he just got aggresive,and always responds in panic and blaming everyone.
I have no one to talk to,i cant express myself openly with others.
I feel a burden on myself as time passes,and sometimes i got exhaust in taking care of everything.my daughters are teenagers and studing ,i dont want them to get effected with all this.They are the only one which i count on.
I am somtimes so frightened with his behaviour,i even suggest him to see a doctor for his violent behaviour he is not on drugs or on anything.
I dont know how to heal .

OP posts:
Maitri108 · 03/03/2025 17:57

Are you in the UK?

You need to divorce and get this man out of your life. Get some legal advice regarding separation and collate all financial documents.

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