25 female. Met guy 27 on dating app. Went out for 1 month. Really lovely guy, good conversation, good sense of humour and interesting person to begin with. But things moving too fast and he became very needy and clingy.
to me he also seems too active on social media and likes to post a lot of gym stuff. I’m sure he does like the gym but to me its too excessive. I would say 1 post every 5-7 days.
He is working at a dead end job (his words, not mine) but his social bio is entrepreneur, business owner and professional gym coach- I’m sure he is but it feels like bragging and showing off . Also He would cancel his gym session all the time and on multiple occasions last min cancel on his gym buddy because he wanted to hang out with me but goes on to post an old photo of him and made it look like he went to the gym.
When I’m with him, he doesn’t eat healthy at all- eat a lot of frozen meals, ready meals, takeaways…he doesn’t meal prep or plan recipes like I do. I make sure to have 3 carbs, 2 veg and 1 meat. He also drinks a lot of Pepsi, energy drinks and doesn’t do his own dishes. Because there was (a bit of) mould in the sink I ended up doing the dishes for him at his flat. I don’t know…overall just seems to me he has unbalanced meals or little routine but yet some of his post are of him eating fruit, drinking green juice, protein shakes and staying hydrated by drinking water, keeping a good route, loving yourself.
he changes his bio every week and can be sound very attention seeking. I just feel like he’s not got much going on and needing validation from others… including me at times when we are going out. he seemed very interesting at the start eg hobbies, gym, goals..etc but very soon I discovered that’s it, was mostly just plain talk, which was disappointing. He is physically attractive yes but I’m sad to say all the other trails makes him so not attractive…
what do you guys think? I do feel terrible thinking this way. I’m very open to advice to more experienced mumsnet members.