So my partner had an affair some time ago and it was hard. Not long after discovering I found out this woman was pregnant but she was also sleeping with someone else but via a DNA he found out he wasn’t the father and was told she used a sperm Doner. I always had this gut feeling it’s my partners child but when questioned he denied it saying it was nothing to do with him. I haven’t helped myself as I decided to look at photos of this child and I feel like I can see resemblance but I don’t know whether that’s something I’m choosing to see… it’s been many years now so how I can bring up something that’s in one way is irrelevant as he believes it’s all in the past but yet stuck with me daily… it’s not like she’s ever reached out not that I know of anyway…