We are going away for a shortbreak with another couple abroad which was my idea to give the opportunity for one of our friends to show us around her home country. I have my suspicions her husband and mine are planning to go to a lapdancing club, as her husband said they will sit in a bar, whilst we go shopping. My husband agreed, he knows I hate shopping, I am not hugely close with his wife, my aim was essentially to sightsee and spend time together as couples. I morally disagree with these clubs and upset that I think my husband would go behind my back as he is aware my views on these things. I have no evidence yet that this is the case, But I know I am going to be worried the whole time there they are going to sneak off and I know exaclty what they are doing or have any confrontation with my husband. I feel it is a lack of trust and if I raise it will fuel the desire to want to do stuff behind my back. I know we shouldnt sit in each ohter pockets and he wants to spend time with his friend, but I not sure if to say anything before or see what happens.