Is that genuine?

[beestint]

Hi all, advice needed.

in a nutshell, met a guy at work and after 2 months totally non-frequent work chats, met twice in a week and had very dive deep conversation. Mutual affection and kissed. Valentine’s Day went out for a walk. Intense affection with card sent and kisses. Continued messaging over the week but yet to be asked out again.

is that serious? Should I wait until being asked out?

I’d just ask him if he wants to do something.

My honest thoughts are if he's that interested he'd be asking when he can see you again without leaving you wondering. you could ask him and his response will give you more insight, if he doesn't bite your hand off with planning a new date then you know he's probably not as keen.

Hard to know what he's after, his behaviour is confusing. Does it bother you? It would bother me. I'd suspect he enjoys the fun of the chase rather than wanting a serious relationship of any kind.

Thx all. Been ghosted for a month and suddenly received message asking out few days ago. Already moved on and paid no heed to that. Had been disturbed enough for that rude and disrespectful behavior.