Opinions greatly received please …anyone else been in a similar situation??
so background info ..I’ve been with my lovely DP (who says it’s us forever ) for 2 years now ..first year was amazing like they are .. second year a tricky one.
When I met him he used to live a few doors from his ex wife near the old martial home & their 14 year old DD.
He was seeing the DD every other weekend .
.DP ex wife recently moved & he has moved further away from me to live around the corner from his ex wife’s place again . But no longer having his DD every other weekend ..just occasionally now .
He is now taking on a new job at b the same company an hour away from where he lives now . Going from 4days on /off to 2 days on/off no night shifts btw .
Do u need to take the hint ? Or am I overthinking this ?
Since he’s moved he hasn’t had me visit his area at all .always stays at mine .
How can what’s now become a long distance relationship work especially if he’s to work the new shift pattern regarding our quality time spent together? And importantly making time for his lovely DD as well ?
I get the impression that he is cock blocking the ex …maybe he does still secretly want her even though he tells me he hates her !
They still haven’t sorted a financial order out since the divorce 3 years ago as he’s openly admitted to me that he is waiting for her to inherit more money first !
I really thought we had something special .. it’s like the relationship is going backwards 🥲