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Neighbour texting my husband

32 replies

Minlee · 19/02/2025 21:39

My neighbour added my husband on Snapchat. They started snapping and my husband was secretive about it then I found out and said I wasn’t uncomfortable with it. He deleted her from snap she then messaged him on Facebook asking why did he delete her from Snapchat. What is people’s thoughts on this?

OP posts:
Iamallowedtodisagreewithyou · 20/02/2025 17:34

Talk to them both, separately, but firmly, and press upon them how inappropriate the behaviour is.

Tell your neighbour you have fully requested her to stop messaging him and if she does do it again then be a bit less nice - she'll get the message.

Devianinc · 21/02/2025 03:11

Moveoverdarlin · 19/02/2025 23:07

Depends what they’re messaging about surely. If it’s ‘Hey Dave, is it green or black bin this week?’ Then it’s fairly innocent. General chitchatting, banter, jokey tone is not ok.

I’m sure it was nothing important that couldn’t wait. No texting other peoples husbands. Nothing good would become of that and I had the same thing happen that I found out about. I’m waiting to confront her. I might punch in the face. I think she’s afraid of me. I haven’t seen her around.

Devianinc · 21/02/2025 03:24

It’s a freaking rat race. I’m now single but he’s paying all of my bills . You can’t trust women, too many saying sexual things in basic conversations with simple conversations. Oh, me and my husband had monkey sex, oh and the big one. I like to be spanked and my hair pulled. Innocently said in front of other people. Omg, some women are so freaking desperate and if that’s what you want. It’s all yours. Except everything has my name on it. Including the family business.

Devianinc · 21/02/2025 03:24

It’s pathetic

BlondiePortz · 21/02/2025 03:41

My thoughtd are you have a husband problem not a neighbour one

H112 · 23/02/2025 09:40

........ your husband is on Snapchat. That says it all op. God only knows what he has been up to

Here4thechocs · 01/06/2025 06:41

Nanny1983 · 19/02/2025 22:22

Do people over the age of 21 use Snapchat 😂

IKR! Dodgy people with intent apparently do. 🤣

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