Back story - he cheated 2 years ago, we’ve been trying to make things work. We spoke last night, he was asking questions about what a woman brings to the relationship and what I think a man should bring then he went onto saying that he’s been trying past 2 years and I don’t put no effort into the relationship to which I didn’t reply.
he fell asleep, I checked his phone - went on TikTok saw a video he like to which it stated “chin up gangster, you knew there love was fake” I spoke to him about it when he woke up midway through the night and left it at that.
decided to take myself home this morning as I was stopping at his house to which he brought up the TikTok again. I said we spoke about it last night. He then went on and on.. saying I had no right to be upset and I didn’t need to be upset and that the video wasn’t about me even tho he resonated with it, he said it was about men being sad bc he stated he was last night.. he then said something about me not letting him be sad to which I said not once have I said u can’t be sad etc etc.
I know it sounds silly but this is what we argue about most of the time, silly things like this, then he makes me feel like I’m going crazy and making a big deal about things..
I told him I feel as tho I’m being gaslighted as the video is about a relationship and he’s saying it’s got nothing to do with me so I shouldn’t be upset in anyway. He said I was laughing at him bc yes I didn’t laugh but bc I felt like I was going crazy.
sorry guys, I know it’s very stupid but this is us every other day..