First time posting on here. Don’t even know what I’m looking for, I think I just need some support and guidance. It’s our 10th wedding anniversary 28 February, been together almost 16 years and i think we are heading for a separation. I don’t want to, but he’s not talking to me, won’t be in the same room as me, only communicating through messages about kids. To say I’m heartbroken is an understatement. I love him very much, but he clearly doesn’t feel the same. The issues we have are with his family, mainly his mum and younger brother. I don’t speak to them and my husband blames me, even though he’s admitted that his mum is interfering, jealous and can be very intrusive. We have two boys and ever since my eldest was born she has made my life so difficult. Long story short, last Saturday we got in to an argument and I told him that I felt heartbroken that he doesn’t take my side and support me, he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I’m so lost. I can’t think straight. I’m really scared and don’t want to lose him, but if he doesn’t want me I’m not going to lower myself to begging. How do I navigate separation whilst living in the same house? How don’t I tell my kids?