Can anyone relate or tell me a positive story? I am 35 years old. Been single for years now. Desperate to have children but don't want to do it alone. I feel so pressured all the time to be dating and meeting new men.
But after a year of solid online dating on Bumble and Hinge, I've had to delete the apps as I keep seeing the same people again and again and I feel I have exhausted these apps as far as I can go! It's getting to the point where people say they have seen me on the app before and I recognise the same profiles as well. Last year I went on about 2 dates a month. I have tried to refresh my profile a number of times and kept the photos no older than 2 years, but I don't go out on a night out like I used to, so I rarely have photo opportunities anymore and its rare for me to like a selfie. I feel like if everyone has seen me and I've seen them, my chances aren't going to change much.
I feel like perhaps I should just take a break but will it need to be long enough in order for the people on there to change much? I don't know.
I'm torn between deleting the apps and staying away for the next 6 months or something, but then I'm getting older and older and not meeting people!😢