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Tracy20009 · 14/02/2025 09:19

Hi all I’m in a long term relationship with my partner. A couple of months ago he asked me to check an email on our shared device and I may have been tad intrusive and looked down his list. I saw one from a dating site. Shocked and hurt I confronted him immediately but he wasn’t sure why I was upset. He logged in to the dating site which was 17% or so complete no bio and no picture. He was last active on the site the day he joined it so never returned, he knew me at the time and I think we’d been on a date. Despite all this I feel really hurt and upset over it for some reason. Am I over reacting?

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CleanShirt · 14/02/2025 09:26

So he was on a dating site when he'd been on a date or two with you and hasn't returned since?

If this is the case then yes, you're overreacting.

NotthinglikeaBondGirl · 14/02/2025 10:49

CleanShirt · 14/02/2025 09:26

So he was on a dating site when he'd been on a date or two with you and hasn't returned since?

If this is the case then yes, you're overreacting.

That's what I was thinking as well. If he hasn't been on the dating website since you got together with him what's the problem?

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