I recently started talking to a man on an app who I thought was attractive. He is early 30s and I am late 30s. We had been exchanging steamy texts in the run-up to actually meeting. We eventually met up in public and I felt a lot of chemistry right away. It progressed to the point where I felt comfortable inviting him to my home. I had signalled that I would be up for having sex and he was giving every indication that he wanted sex as well. When we made it inside, at the risk of sounding like a walking cliché, one thing quickly led to another. It started with me kissing him (which led to the tongues nearly halfway down each other's throats kind of kissing), me grabbing his bum, and asking him if he wanted to head to the bedroom to take things further. I was really turned on by him. I think it was a combination of not having had sex for a while and being quite revved up from the sexting.
When we made it to the bedroom and it got to the point where we were on the verge of having sex, a problem presented itself. He couldn't get a full erection so we couldn't actually have sex. It was only partially erect and definitely not hard enough for sex. It stayed that way for the duration of the time we were in the bedroom. He seemed flustered and embarrassed by the situation. We ended up doing other stuff. He used his hands and tongue to pleasure me until I had an orgasm. He didn't have one himself however. I'm now wondering what to do. He said he doesn't know why he couldn't get fully hard. I'm wondering if I should mention the idea of taking Viagra to him or would that just be too awkward? I thought the encounter was going really well until his aforementioned performance issue presented itself in the bedroom.