How

[Housewife565]

How to tell husband that I want a divorce

In person, calmly and with enough time for a discussion alone afterwards

Why do you want a divorce? The reasons will determine how you tell him.

Just like that. Sit him down and tell him that you do not want to be with him any longer, that you want to separate/divorce. Just do it, works like a charm. The more you think about it and beat around the bush, the worse it will be for both of you.

Because all we are doing is nore stop arguing

Ok, is there any way you could say to him, I am not happy with the constant arguing. We need help to learn how to communicate better because atm we are not communicating well at all. I want to go to marriage counselling and if we can’t do that then I am seriously considering getting a divorce. If he agrees, great. If he doesn’t then you proceed with the divorce. I think you should have giving it every chance before putting the final nail in the coffin. If there’s no abuse or cheating, it might just be you need to learn better ways to communicate.

Do you really want a divorce or do you want the arguing to stop?

Maybe try working on the reasons that you argue so much first and then try and rebuild your relationship from there. Then if this doesn't work and you still want to end the relationship then at least you have given things a go. Especially if there are children involved.