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Am I wrong?

14 replies

Cs159 · 09/02/2025 20:42

Long story short.

I was looking after my niece and nephew at my sisters house. My daughter fell asleep so she stayed home my partner kicked off because the plan changed and now my daughters at home.

he saying the plan changed so the kids should come here instead.
am I wrong for going to there house ?

haven’t heard the last of it!

OP posts:
Dror · 09/02/2025 20:43

I don't really understand what the issue is, or why you're with some bloke who kicks off?

Sounds incredibly unappealing.

EG94 · 09/02/2025 20:44

Kicked off because he had his own daughter I presume. Attractive

Pickandmixusername · 09/02/2025 20:45

How old is your dd and is she your dp's dd too? Does he live with you? There's a lot of info missing from your op.

Anyway, he shouldn't be kicking off at you

pictoosh · 09/02/2025 20:46

Please explain the issue again. I'm not sure I've got it right.
Is it that your daughter is at home with your partner?

Ankhmo · 09/02/2025 20:46

Twat.

AnneLovesGilbert · 09/02/2025 20:46

Was he planning to go out but can’t because he’s now got to look after her? Is he her dad? It’s not terribly clear what’s gone on.

Kahless · 09/02/2025 20:47

Sorry, what?

I have no idea what you are trying to say here?

DorothyStorm · 09/02/2025 20:48

How long of a partner?
is he your dd’s father?
if he is your dd’s father, how much parenting does he do generally?

Stripeyanddotty · 09/02/2025 20:48

I haven’t heard the last of it!

He sounds nasty.
Is he your dd’s father?

rainbowstardrops · 09/02/2025 20:48

As others have said, I don't really understand what you're saying from the very limited information you've given

Ankhmo · 09/02/2025 20:54

OP was meant to take DD with her.
But DD fell asleep.

OP left DD sleeping and went out.

OPs OH now hasn't got the house to himself as he wanted and has to consider a sleeping child.

This "king" of a man then kicked off at OP saying that as DD was there asleep, the other kids should have come there so OP could look after all the kids, including the sleeping DD, that way he wouldn't have to consider any kids and could do what he pleases.

(Or something along those lines)

pictoosh · 09/02/2025 21:09

Good post @Ankhmo - I think you've just explained it correctly.

TipsyJoker · 10/02/2025 00:37

If he had no plans outwith the house, he’s a wanker. Ignore his Mantrum.

AnneLovesGilbert · 10/02/2025 00:45

If it’s his child.

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