A little back story, we met around 4 years ago, engaged and getting married this year. We have a nearly 2 year old and I'm in peri, so as you can imagine in knackered. I also have an ill father and two older teens who certainly keep me on my toes.
So last night we were watching a program and I mentioned how latina women are always so beautiful, as in well groomed, feisty etc which I admire. I was also like this before peri got its hands on me.
Now my partner who has never actually made me feel crappy about myself, turned around and said that Columbian women are the most beautiful of the latina women. Now this is where I I felt that horrible drop in the stomach, I know I've let myself go to a certain point. He sees this and continues with, " well you perv over other men". I actually don't as I have absolutely no interest in other men (another wonder of peri).
I might add our sex life has also gone downhill with all my issues and work etc.
I know it's normal for men to look but he is fully aware of how I feel right now as we have good communication and i found it insensitive, I feel horrible about myself and how I am at the moment but I also wonder if I'm over reacting?
Would you ladies feel the same way?