Lonely

[LilyAnn13]

I'm 54 and have never been married or in a serious relationship.
I watch friends, who are couples, interact and I think how I would like some of that. I wonder what it must feel like to have someone waiting at home looking forward to seeing you. Over the years I've had guys be really flirty with me, almost on a daily basis (work acquaintances for example where we have become close) and when I have eventually revealed my feelings they have laughed it off like "oh I only see us as friends". So I just stopped putting myself out there because it eventually knocked my confidence.

What’s life like generally? Work? Hobbies? Socialise?

I travel for work and I sometimes see women who have clearly given up on their lives. You are not alone. Can I make a suggestion? Go and get yourself a nice haircut. Just for yourself. Also, do try to find women friends. I know it's not easy. But there are a lot of single women around and they could be surprisingly good company. I am not saying this a substitute to what you are seeking. But it might be an improvement on your current situation. I hope it helps

All of the above is pretty good Ticklish. I just lack confidence I think 😕

But have you dated, or put yourself in situations (online or in person) where it’s clear everyone present is seeking a relationship?

I get this OP.

I'm a bit older than you and have only had a few relationships. People seem to prefer to have situationships or hookups especially men my age who have been round the block and don't want to commit again. I know this won't apply to all men but it seems to be the case with the ones on dating apps.

I have some good friends but I feel very much on my own. When I'm ill there's no one to help. I want to go out and have fun with friends not burden them with my problems