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Good vibes from him

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ButterflyKimchi · 30/01/2025 16:27

27F here, single. Young professional. Not dated much , been studying and working hard and not many guys either. Most of my friends are female. So keen to find out what you guys think.

Met this guy at work. 5-6 years older than me. Added me to a work group chat.

He tel called me one day, with a work query. We are both professionals but different specialities (usually if people need advice they call my office number or email me or work teams call me). Each exchanged one text after that. this was 2-3 weeks ago.

then yesterday, he texted me asking if I wanted to join a few work colleagues for dinner and after dinner when we got home we exchanged short and simple banter text at 11pm.

Then today at work, he’s just more chatty than usual and I sat with him for a group lunch.

What do you guys think- Is he just friendly or is there a possibility he might have an interest?

it’s a chill convo, I’m just curious. If he’s not, at least he’s got good vibes and I like being around him.

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username299 · 30/01/2025 16:30

IMO he's either interested or desperate for friends.

Cheesandcrackers · 30/01/2025 20:11

He either wants you as a partner, friend or work friend. The latter is tricky as he may want an ally which could work for you too or he may have an ulterior motive (getting you to do work for him rather than anything fun). He is a bit older so he may also be more senior. Maybe remove this as a possibility first?

Pickandmixusername · 30/01/2025 20:16

Hard to tell...could be he wants you as a friend or is interested in you romantically or maybe he is just really friendly with colleagues. My friend was excited someone gave her his number at work but turned out he wasn't interested, he just wanted her to have his details for work stuff 😩.

I think it's harder to tell at work. Maybe put out some feelers? Maybe find out if he's single for example or if he's interested in women?

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