This is weird... apologies in advance.
I have a 4 year old and I'm currently 20 weeks pregnant. So as you know with kids you can't just "do the deed" as and when, most the time there is some planning or preparation lol.
Long story short me and my partner have always been quite adventurous. He has hundreds of pictures & videos of me / us.
I've done my hair and a bit of makeup so he knows what's going down later on which he's acknowledged etc. If it's worth adding we have sex often. I'd say around 5 times a week.
But he goes through phases where as soon as our 4 year old is in bed he will shower because he's not long back from work, and watch our photos / videos in the shower before coming out to me. It isn't a massive problem but sometimes I hate just sitting here waiting when he could be spending actual time with me? I just don't understand it. Like if I'm not in the mood or if I'm not home fine go for it but why when he knows he's coming out to me?
He doesn't watch porn or anything. I know that for a fact also as we share a Google account and he's happy leaving his phone around etc and the odd time I've checked what apps he was on he wasn't even using safari so...
I'm not sure what I'm after I'm just wondering if that's normal or anyone been in a similar situation?