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should I ask for another meeting

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samthomas125 · 29/01/2025 11:26

A few weeks ago a woman requested to connect in with me on LinkedIn and proceeded to DM me about non-work related topics (asked about my private life, travel, etc) she found out I had a meeting close to where she works and asked to meet for coffee.

We had a great chat and I liked the vibe. Again, nothing really work-related. Since then we've been talking daily (not a lot, just one or two messages a day)

I asked to meet her again because I'm going back into the same area this week and thought it'd be nice to catch up. She mentioned she's working from home because of chinese new year (she works for a chinese company)

I replied with "that's all good. Enjoy the break"

Because she didnt offer to reschedule would you suggest to not message her again until she reaches out?

I feel its a bit of a grey zone as we're not actually dating and I dont have any intentions to..I thought it'd be nice to make a new connection and someone to meet every so often when I'm in the area.

OP posts:
username299 · 29/01/2025 15:28

Is she networking rather than trying to be friends?

samthomas125 · 29/01/2025 16:08

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:28

Is she networking rather than trying to be friends?

I dont think so..All our interactions have been non-work related. Conversation from her side has mainly been about her life, interests, etc.

OP posts:
username299 · 30/01/2025 00:48

samthomas125 · 29/01/2025 16:08

I dont think so..All our interactions have been non-work related. Conversation from her side has mainly been about her life, interests, etc.

Then ask if she wants to meet for another coffee. I don't see the harm.

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